When I first packed my life into boxes and stared out at the unfamiliar skyline of a new city, I didn’t expect the knot in my chest to grow tighter with every passing day. New opportunities? Sure. But the creeping, ever-present feeling of anxiety? I hadn’t planned on that part. And if you’re going through…
It took me years—and a few major burnouts—to understand that my anxiety wasn’t just about racing thoughts or sleepless nights. It was about boundaries. Or more accurately, the lack of them. If you’ve ever found yourself saying yes when your gut screamed no, felt physically sick from guilt after setting a limit, or overexplaining your…
Apartment hunting sounds exciting on paper, right? A fresh start, new neighborhood, maybe even that dream kitchen with a breakfast nook. But if you’re like me—and many others—you know that behind the Pinterest boards and floor plans, there’s a deep, gnawing anxiety that sneaks up every step of the way. I’ve moved more times than…
Planning a wedding should be magical, right? But let’s be real—between finding the perfect dress, managing family dynamics, budgeting, and hoping Aunt Linda doesn’t make a scene at the reception, it can also stir up a tidal wave of anxiety. I’ve been there. I remember sitting in my car outside a florist’s shop, heart pounding,…
It usually starts with one harmless thought. Then another. Before I know it, I’ve convinced myself I’ve messed up everything, that I’m not doing enough, or that something terrible is about to happen. That’s the spiral. And if you’re reading this, I’m guessing you know exactly what I mean. Spiraling thoughts from anxiety aren’t just…
If you’re anything like me, you’ve probably tried all the usual stuff for anxiety—deep breathing, guided meditations, cutting back on caffeine (which was a real struggle for my iced coffee addiction), and even talking to a therapist. But no one really tells you how powerful a few simple words can be when repeated with intention….
There was a time when just the *thought* of walking into a meeting room full of people would make my palms sweat. I’d play out worst-case scenarios in my head like a private screening of every awkward possibility. If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve been there too. Fear of embarrassment from anxiety isn’t just…
I used to avoid dental visits like the plague. Even a simple check-up would send my heart racing, palms sweating, and thoughts spiraling out of control. If you’ve ever sat in that waiting room with a dry mouth and a knot in your stomach, you’re definitely not alone. Dental anxiety isn’t just “nerves” — it’s…
When I first started learning about anxiety, I thought the goal was to get rid of it completely. But that’s not how real life works, right? What I wish someone told me earlier is that the key isn’t erasing anxiety—it’s *building resilience*. That shift in mindset changed everything for me. Instead of fighting every wave…