There was a time when I didn’t even realize how brutally I was speaking to myself. I’d mess up one small thing at work or forget a commitment, and this inner voice would chime in with, “You’re so careless,” or “You always screw things up.” Over time, I began noticing that this constant stream of…
If you’ve ever felt your pulse race or your chest tighten just from the idea of starting a conversation with someone you don’t know, you’re not alone. I used to avoid entire events just to dodge the awkwardness of talking to strangers. Anxiety about talking to strangers isn’t just a minor discomfort—it can quietly sabotage…
Breaking up sucks. There’s no gentle way to say it. Whether it was mutual, messy, or just long overdue, the aftermath can feel like you’re trying to breathe underwater. I remember sitting on my couch, staring at a text thread like it would somehow bring clarity. Instead, all I got was a tidal wave of…
It always starts the same for me—something tiny spirals into something massive in my mind. A slight delay in a friend’s reply suddenly means they’re mad. A skipped heartbeat becomes a sure sign of a heart condition. It’s exhausting, and it’s called catastrophizing. If you’ve ever found yourself trapped in an anxiety spiral that escalates…
If you’ve ever felt your heart race after reading a cruel comment online or spiraled into worry after someone targeted you on social media, you’re far from alone. I’ve been there too. What started as a passive scroll turned into nights of overthinking, chest tightness, and even fear of checking notifications. Dealing with anxiety after…
Living alone has its perks — you get to control your space, binge whatever you want on Netflix, and no one judges your midnight cereal run. But if you’re someone who struggles with anxiety, solitude can also feel like both a blessing and a psychological battleground. I remember moving into my own apartment for the…
There was a time I’d map out entire routes around town just to avoid using a public restroom. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. Avoiding public restrooms due to anxiety isn’t just a “quirky habit”—it’s a legit mental health challenge that quietly disrupts daily life in ways most people can’t even imagine. Whether it’s the fear…
Last week, I caught myself pacing near the window, eyes glued to the darkening sky. The temperature had dropped nearly 10 degrees, the air felt heavier, and out of nowhere, my chest tightened like I was bracing for something awful. I’ve dealt with anxiety long enough to know the signs—but what surprised me was just…
Panic attacks can hijack your entire sense of reality. One minute, you’re doing something completely normal—maybe sitting in traffic or waiting in line at the grocery store—and the next, it feels like the walls are closing in. Your chest tightens, your hands sweat, your heart races, and suddenly, you’re spiraling. I’ve been there. And let…