It’s funny how something left unsaid can haunt you louder than a full-blown argument. I’ve always thought that time would take care of the unanswered questions, but nope—anxiety from lack of closure has a mind of its own. Whether it’s a relationship that fizzled without explanation, a job opportunity that ghosted you after the final…
Let’s be honest—when anxiety strikes, it doesn’t just hit you once and disappear. It lingers, loops, and grows stronger every time your mind hits replay. I’ve been there, lying in bed at 2 a.m., my heart pounding over a simple conversation from earlier. That’s the rumination trap. It’s exhausting, isn’t it? If you’re stuck wondering…
Last week, I found myself lying awake at 2 a.m., heart racing, mind running through every possible disaster that could happen at work the next day. The worst part? Nothing was even wrong. But that didn’t matter—because when your brain gets caught in a loop of constantly imagining worst-case scenarios, logic rarely stands a chance….
It always starts the same for me—something tiny spirals into something massive in my mind. A slight delay in a friend’s reply suddenly means they’re mad. A skipped heartbeat becomes a sure sign of a heart condition. It’s exhausting, and it’s called catastrophizing. If you’ve ever found yourself trapped in an anxiety spiral that escalates…
It usually starts with one harmless thought. Then another. Before I know it, I’ve convinced myself I’ve messed up everything, that I’m not doing enough, or that something terrible is about to happen. That’s the spiral. And if you’re reading this, I’m guessing you know exactly what I mean. Spiraling thoughts from anxiety aren’t just…