Mistakes. Ugh. We all make them—big, small, sometimes embarrassingly in front of a crowd. I’ve lost sleep over typos in emails, spiraled for hours after saying something awkward in a meeting, or second-guessed a parenting decision I made days ago. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. Managing anxiety about making mistakes isn’t about becoming perfect—it’s about…
Back when I was in my twenties, I missed an incredible opportunity to speak at a conference—one that could’ve boosted my career—because I was terrified of messing up. At the time, I didn’t know what to call it. I chalked it up to nerves, or maybe I just wasn’t ready. But looking back, it was…
It started innocently enough. A small choice — screen time before dinner or after? Suddenly, I was spiraling. What if I was damaging my kid’s development? What if every decision I made carried long-term consequences? That’s how anxiety over parenting decisions crept into my life — subtly, then all at once. If you’ve ever questioned…
It’s funny how often we praise perfectionism like it’s this badge of honor — like saying “I’m just a perfectionist” somehow explains late nights, missed meals, and chronic self-doubt. I used to wear that badge proudly, until it quietly started running my life. I didn’t even realize how much anxiety was rooted in that drive…
Most people wouldn’t guess I struggle with anxiety—on the outside, everything looks put together. I meet deadlines, keep appointments, and even joke around during meetings. But inside? It’s like a storm that never stops brewing. That’s the twisted beauty of high-functioning anxiety symptoms—they’re often invisible to everyone but painfully obvious to the person experiencing them….
I never really saw it coming. Perfectionism always felt like a badge of honor—striving for excellence, triple-checking every detail, pushing myself just a little harder than everyone else. But at some point, it stopped feeling like a strength and started weighing me down. Deadlines made me freeze. One small mistake ruined my entire day. I…