It hit me during a weekend scroll through social media—everyone was somewhere, doing something incredible, while I sat there with this gnawing tension in my chest. You know the kind: that strange mix of envy, inadequacy, and anxiety that makes your heart race even though nothing’s actually happening. That was my first taste of what…
If you’ve ever found yourself saying “sorry” for things that don’t even need an apology—like speaking too much, asking a question, or just existing in someone’s space—you’re not alone. I used to be that person, apologizing for everything, even when someone else bumped into me. What I didn’t realize back then was that this constant…
It’s funny how often we praise perfectionism like it’s this badge of honor — like saying “I’m just a perfectionist” somehow explains late nights, missed meals, and chronic self-doubt. I used to wear that badge proudly, until it quietly started running my life. I didn’t even realize how much anxiety was rooted in that drive…